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My Love Letter to Bellingham, WA

February 23, 2021 by Mary Stidham 11 Comments

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Dear Bellingham,

Next month you and I will have been together for three years, though I fell in love with you in the lovely summer of 2015 during a college tour of Western Washington University with my daughter. I loved your big trees, your cool breeze, and Western’s campus. The trails I saw throughout the city, and the walk on Taylor Dock made me happy . I pined for you, planned for you, and dreamed of you for almost three more years before I was able to move to be with you.

Bellingham Living

I started Bellingham Living on Facebook, an act of love, almost as soon as I decided it was time for me to relocate, a full two months before I moved to be with you Bellingham. The friendliness of the people, and the helpfulness I experienced right off in the group was amazing. I felt like I had friends before I even moved into town. Meeting people online and see pictures of the places they had gone and things they had done had me more than ready to make you my home. As I arrived here in Bellingham I met many people that recognized me from Bellingham Living, and I knew you were still a small town Bellingham, no matter how much you’ve grown.

Home in Sudden Valley

Deer in Sudden Valley Bellingham
Deer in Sudden Valley

I fell in love with Sudden Valley online. It is outside of the city, my love, but it is close enough that I can visit you every day. I love the trees, and thought I could feel like I was in my “tree house”. I also liked that the prices were more affordable than Bellingham proper. My love for Sudden Valley has only grown over the years I have lived here too. As I discovered all it has to offer, (the marina, the beaches and parks, the trails, and the community center in the Dance Barn) I felt like I had moved into a storybook neighborhood. Another bonus, as of November 2020 a new HOA board has taken majority control. Everything is looking even better for Sudden Valley’s future. Also, I truly have the best neighbors I have ever had, and I hear this from all over Sudden Valley.

As Time Passes

As time passed my first year I just kept on falling more and more deeply in love with you. I got to experience the trails myself and each one brought me to places I never would have found on my own. Walking the neighborhoods I couldn’t stop taking pictures of all of the different charming houses. I got to see seasons for the first time in my life. The changing blooms at different times of the year were magical to witness.

Going out

I have gone out more and done more than I had in decades before I came to be with you Bellingham. Before COVID there was never a lack of events or shows to attend. Exploring restaurants from the advice given in Bellingham Living has been fun and delicious. Finding the true gems of Bellingham like the Bellingham Circus Guild and Good Time Girls Tours is magical. Getting to hear Ira Glass speak at Mount Baker Theater, seeing moving documentaries at The Pickford Film Center has made this place feel like home. The long summer days allow time to do so much more, so it is you that I love almost the best.

Downtown

Downtown Bellingham, your heart, is one of my favorites places to spend an afternoon or evening. I love walking the street, shopping at the boutique shops, and stopping for a bite to eat at any restaurant and knowing that I will get a great meal. Your buildings, built around the turn of the 20th century show me what things were like back in that era. Wandering your streets I wonder what each building is like inside and out, what have those buildings seen in their time, and how much more will we show them?

Megan and I out in downtown Bellingham.

It’s a treat to go to a live concert at The Wild Buffalo, play pool at Bellingham Bar & Grill, and darts and shuffleboard at The Local Public House. I love that I feel safe walking around downtown day or night. Ending an evening with a treat at Pure Bliss Desserts, or an ice cream from Mallard’s is perfect. Shopping at Third Planet or Fringe is always fun, and my new favorite sidewalk cafe is Locus.

Fairhaven

Bellingham you’re not like most towns. You’re special. Originally you were made up of four towns coming together to make Bellingham Bellingham, Fairhaven, Whatcom, and Sehome. This is why your streets don’t make sense and learning how to get from place to place takes time. It is also why you have a SECOND downtown called Fairhaven. Fairhaven wins the awards for cuteness. Cute brick buildings with boutiques and restaurants make Fairhaven a wonderful place to wander. Cool buildings like the one The Black Cat resides in are fun to explore. If you follow Harris down towards the water you will find Fairhaven’s stone plaques with bits of history at your feet. These stones range from funny to serious, and shed a tiny light on what Fairhaven was like back in the early days.

Stone plaques in Fairhaven Bellingham WA
One of many stone plaques in Fairhaven

Squalicum Harbor

Living near the bay in new to me. Commercial fishing is not something I have seen a lot of before moving to Bellingham. Hours can be passed walking the docks and checking out the enormous fishing boats next to the ridiculously huge yachts. Zuanich Park is right next to the harbor. This is a great place to fly a kite, learn to skateboard, and to watch boats come in and out of the harbor. Another wonderful bonus of is often times you can find fish, shrimp, crab, being sold off of a fishing boat.

Squalicum Harbor in Bellingham

Love of the Lakes

Besides Bellingham Bay, which is awesome, you also have such lovely lakes Bellingham. I found Lake Padden on one of my first trips to Bellingham, and love the low fog over the water and watching kayakers make their way across the water. The circumference of the lake is around 2.25 miles and circling it makes for a nice walk. Lake Whatcom is Lake Padden’s big sister that you can also walk next to on the Hertz Trail. I love visiting your lakes Bellingham especially in the summer when I can jump in and swim! Kayaking works all year long on the lakes.

Kayaking on Lake Whatcom

The Dark Side

You’re not all perfect Bellingham. You know your winters are dark and the days are short. Your roads aren’t in the best shape, and there are many people living on the streets. Homes are hard to buy or rent, and they are more expensive than I’d like, but I do understand that I am not the only one to fall in love with you. We can work together to change the things we can change. The dark winters bring us beautiful Spring, Summer, and Fall. Nothing is perfect Bellingham, including you, but I love you anyway.

Thank you Bellingham

You have given so much to me, Bellingham. I have a thriving business selling homes all over Whatcom and Skagit counties. My friendships here are better than I have had in decades. Bellingham you shared with me an extraordinary man, and we got married on Bellingham’s own sailing vessel the Zodiac Schooner. Moving to Bellingham has changed my life for the good in so many ways. I hope to continue our relationship for the rest of my life, Bellingham. I know there is no better place for me.

Bellingham's Zodiac Schooner in Bellingham Bay
Our wedding on the Zodiac Schooner on Bellingham Bay

If you think Bellingham or the surrounding areas might be the place for you too please don’t hesitate to reach out and give me a call. I almost always answer my phone, but I respond to texts and emails too! 360-325-9076

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  1. Linda says

    February 24, 2021 at 11:24 am

    A great tribute to Bellingham Mary. I enjoyed reading it.

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    • Mary Stidham says

      February 24, 2021 at 10:33 pm

      Thank you Linda!

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  2. Christopher christmann says

    May 26, 2021 at 8:02 pm

    I’m from Phoenix Az I live here in the summer. I discovered Bham 10 years ago on my way home from Langley Canada. I’ve been coming back to Bham 7 of the last 10 years. Swimming Lake Padden,Hiking Excelsior trail and mountain biking the endless trails within the city and surrounding areas. The diversity of landscape is appealing from ocean side to forest.

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    • Mary Stidham says

      May 26, 2021 at 9:03 pm

      I think you and I are both lucky to have found Bellingham!

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  3. Tyler says

    June 19, 2021 at 12:02 pm

    I plan to visit Bellingham for the first time this August. We want to experience the downtown and surrounding areas. Do you recommend a place to stay ( preferably downtown within walking/ biking distance to dining and shopping)?

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    • Mary Stidham says

      June 19, 2021 at 7:43 pm

      I think the best hotels to be within walking distance to dining and shopping would be either the Chrysalis Inn & Spa or Fairhaven Village Inn. Also, here is my blog that suggests what to do when you’re visiting Bellingham for the first time. https://realestatewithmary.com/2020/08/06/what-to-do-when-youre-considering-moving-to-bellingham-and-visiting-for-the-first-time/

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  4. Roxcy says

    July 23, 2021 at 12:21 am

    Oh yes living is different when you are homeless because rents are high that being senior on social security benefits makes most places out of reach

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  5. Julie a hoezee says

    July 30, 2021 at 6:13 pm

    How wonderful it sounds. My hubs and I are fun loving in our 50s and ready for a change from hot busy Denver. We are water people! I’m concerned about the winter though. Is it bearable? Also we like to tool around on bikes. Is it bike friendly?

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    • Mary Stidham says

      July 31, 2021 at 2:29 pm

      I wrote a blog about Winters in Bellingham, Winter in Bellingham, which should answer all of your questions. Bellingham is quite friendly to bike riders, and always striving to be more so. The biggest negative I see about riding bikes would be the plethora of hills everywhere…so it really depends on where you are coming from and where you are going.

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  6. Simone Davis says

    August 24, 2021 at 9:09 pm

    I was blessed this summer when I came to Bellingham for my son and daughter-in-law’s wedding. The wedding took place at her family’s beach home off Chuckanut Dr. What a wonderful place Bellingham is! Everyone is so open and friendly. I felt so content and at peace the few days I visited. I did not want to return to my home in Missouri. Looking forward to many more visits to this amazing area. Can’t get back soon enough!

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    • Mary Stidham says

      August 25, 2021 at 8:42 pm

      So glad you had such a lovely visit!

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